Leave that nest. Yes, I’m saying get out of your comfort zone and go to a new place.
College is really about starting fresh, experiencing something new, adapting, growing, and let’s not forget about the academics. I think you should consider a college in a new setting away from home and the parental control.
Think about if you really want to stay in your hometown for college. Sure, it’s going to be different because you’ll look at your city as a college student, meaning some places won’t be restricted and you’ll notice new hot spots. But the streets will still be the same streets. I guess what I am trying to say is that it gets a bit depressing when things become too familiar and predictable. Living in the same place gets tiring. Shake things up a bit. Take a risk and try something new. Sure, it may feel a bit weird but in the end you’ll obtain a great lesson. And, plus it’s only for four years.
Personally, I love being away from home because I realize how great I have or had it. For instance, this may sound weird but I really am starting to appreciate my city’s streetlights. Swarthmore’s campus is pretty dark so whenever I walk through the campus, which reminds me of the woods in a scary movie, I get really paranoid. Who would have thought that I would miss the sirens at 2:00AM, the impatient drivers honking as I cross the street, the loud barking emitting out of the smallest dogs. And, do I miss 7-11 and other 24 hours stores. But, at the same time I love how I get a break from it all.
I don’t think I ever got homesick here and that’s all thanks to skype. It’s not the same obviously because everything is virtual but when I am on the verge of feeling like I don’t belong at my school I know the voice of a love one can always cure my doubts and troubles. So don’t be afraid to search colleges out of your region.